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a little more about me


I thought a fitting first blog post would be talking a little more about me! I'd love to share some photos from my life and give you a little peek into how I got to where I am now! I promise there will be cute dog pics ;)

 

I started photography when I was 14, my parents gifted me a camera for my birthday and immediately fell in love with taking pictures of myself, my friends, and the world around me. I joined my high school's journalism class and eventually even convinced my journalism teacher to start a photography club with me! Eventually the friends I would take pictures of asked if I would do their senior photos, and offered to pay me. I was surprised that I was being offered money to do my favorite hobby but I enthusiastically said yes!

High school came and went, and it was time to decide what I was going to do with my life. The obvious choice was college, and while I did start taking community college classes and tried to learn cybersecurity, my heart just was not in it.

"WHEREVER you are, be all there"

I once heard a quote, "Wherever you are, be all there." If I am going to go to school and get a cybersecurity degree, I needed to go all in. But if I wanted to turn my hobby into a business, I needed to wholeheartedly pursue that, so I did. I learned all I could, purchased courses to help refine my photography skills and manage the business side of things, and by 2020 I was officially in business! I had about a year and a half in business photographing families and seniors, and even my first wedding (which I quickly learned wedding photography is not my calling!) But then, my world changed.

In 2021 I met my (now) husband Steven, and he started asking me tough questions about my faith. At this time I was part of a very legalistic church and I was already struggling with some of the beliefs that I was told to have. But the problem was I had built my entire client base from families at church, and I was afraid that if I decided to leave that church, then I would ruin all the hard work I had done the last two years. I told Steven these worries and he said to me that it sounded like I already had made up my mind about what I wanted to do, I was just too scared to do it. He was right. But I was right too. I left the legalistic church and pursued a relationship with Jesus. I found a new church and a few months later in 2022 I got baptized. As soon as members of my old church found out I got baptized somewhere else I lost collectively over 300 Facebook friends, Instagram followers, and with that... all of my clients. I had to shut my business down because I couldn't afford to stay open.

I felt betrayed and hurt. I had people I thought were friends turn on me in an instant. But I knew that God was leading me on the right path and I chose to trust Him. I dug into my new faith and worked on unlearning unbiblical beliefs I had, I briefly got a childcare job working with toddlers, and discovered some underlying health issues that needed to be worked out. I also fell in love, got engaged, and got married! This part of my story is my favorite!

The first picture we ever took together in the DFW airport
November 2022
The day Steven asked me to be his wife
July 2023
The day we became husband and wife
November 2023
The day we celebrated with our friends and family
May 2025

Steven and I met online and we dated long distance from November of 2021 to November of 2023 when we got married! Steven joined Florida Highway Patrol after he graduated college and we knew we wanted to be married before he went to the police academy. So we got married on Navarre Beach in an intimate ceremony with just us, our parents, his sister and grandparents. He then started the police academy and we went back to being long distance. I have so much respect for military spouses because the months he was at academy were so difficult, I can't imagine how hard a year or more deployment must be. While he was in the academy I moved down to Florida, and moving here felt like a brand new start to my life. I left behind all of the baggage that living in the place you grew up in can make you acquire, but I still brought my fears about photography with me. I didn't know if I could put myself in a position to get hurt again.


So, I took the first year of living here off to focus on adjusting to life as a wife and a renter and to start to build roots in a new place. Steven graduated the academy and his schedule definitely took a lot of getting used to. (It's still hard to get used to when he goes on midnight shifts so don't think I'm saying we have it all together, haha!)

Cali mae

our little golden oreo pup

So that brings us to now. I am a 20-something year old wife and dog mom, who loves to read and play video games, will go to the pool before the beach any day of the week, and gets way too much joy out of a crisp Dr. Pepper. But I was missing photography like I was missing a limb. There is nothing like the feeling of getting to capture the joy of new parents looking at their baby, or the anticipation of a senior who is about to take on the world. So with my new name, I created a new business. Focusing on capturing the joys of a family's life, from falling in love to sending their babies off into the world to start their own stories, I am here to capture it all.


If you made it this far, I hope you enjoyed reading some of my story, and if you want more behind the scenes of my life and business, make sure to go follow along on Instagram!

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@erinpleasants.photo